How you feel if the once slim, elegant lady of your dreams begins to add weight in all the wrong places. Or your ostentatiously virile young man begins to double in the middle. You watch his muscles turn to fat and he helplessly builds a pot. Micheal Webb, a relationship expert calls weight gain a cruel trick of nature.
Both men and women tend to sag over a period of time. Men’s bodies begin to sag as they approach middle age and the women add weight with child birth. Unfortunately women tend to change more drastically than the men. They lose their shape and it’s almost a miracle to see a woman maintaining her trim figure after child-birth.
But do the men care/ And the women to care that the once athletic body they used to admire in a man has become a saggy pot-belly. Pots don’t sit well on some men and women except she is pregnant. And does weight gain affect the love of a man and a woman? Of course. For more on relationships go to www.guysandchicks.blogspot.com
Weight gain makes one to look older. Most men prefer slim women and most women prefer a handsome athletic well muscled body. A few percentages would appreciate the fatso and vice versa. But how a fat man or woman carries himself/herself matters. Some people waddle their fat and others walk smart with theirs.
Men naturally get distracted even if they are married to the most beautiful woman in the world. So if a man with a beauty can go outside for a sidekick, what happens if she is on the weight side? Except where such a fat woman has a very strong hold on the man, she would practically constitute an abandoned property or a convenient for him.
But don’t get it wrong, a man who really loves a woman would not give a damn if she is a slim fit or not. It is the inside that really counts in genuine relationships. But weight gain on the part of the women particularly does put a strain on the relation ship. Overweight, we must know is a health problem. It is healthier to stay trim and fit.
